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Top 10 Reasons To Become Swingers by Cindy English
Swinging is often referred to as "the swinging lifestyle" or simply "the lifestyle". Couples who, together, agree to participate in casual sex with others outside of their primary relationships are called swingers. These encounters can include a wide range of sexual activities conducted between three or more people.
Couples who enjoy swinging and frequent swinger's clubs say that they love their partners but crave "recreational sex". They believe that having sex with others is purely recreational and in no way diminishes the loving relationship they have with their spouse.
So where in such a relationship are the secrets that only two can share? Doesn't having "interchangeable" sex partners take the personal intimacy and romance out of the bedroom?
Not according to swingers. They maintain that swinging allows them to explore their sexual boundaries together while strengthening their mutual love and respect for each other.
So, if you and your spouse are considering crossing over from fantasy to reality, here are the top 10 reasons to become swingers.
- Because you both want to experience sex with other people but do not want the guilt of "cheating".
- To explore and learn new techniques that different sex partners can offer.
- To fulfill your mutual fantasies.
- To satisfy your voyeuristic tendencies.
- To explore your bi-sexual curiosities.
- Have group sex in a safe and controlled environment whether it be at a "house party" or at a swingers club.
- To enjoy multiple partner sex with like minded people without fear of judgment.
- To make new friends and experience and exciting "alternate lifestyle".
- To experience those long lost, tantalizing feelings of "lust" and rejuvenate your boring and routine sex life.
- To share in a totally enjoyable and uninhibited "release" from the stress of everyday life that includes your partner.
A word of caution...
Before you try swinging, be absolutely sure of your own wishes and the strength of your emotional relationship with your partner. Be certain that you are emotionally ready to share your partner with another or you may face unexpected feelings of jealousy!
If you are in doubt at all, perhaps you should review the Top 10 Reasons NOT To Become Swingers first.
About the Author
Cindy English is the author and publisher of an intriguing new site:
"Our Cheating Ways"...are they an unpardonable sin or just human nature?
Join the debate at: http://www.cheatingways.com
Swingers: www.SwingLifeStyle.com
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